The Secret, Law of Attraction, and Narcissistic Emotional Abusers: Are You Saying I Attracted Abuse?


“The Secret” and information about the law of attraction are not easily accepted concepts if you’ve been abused in any way whether it be sexual, physical, or emotional or whether the abuse happened when you were a child or an adult. Are you kidding?

Are you saying I attracted abuse? How absolutely absurd and unimaginable!

After years of surviving in a relationship with a narcissistic emotional abuser or from any type of abuse, and you’re able to still use your cognitive powers, if you came across “The Secret” or information regarding the law of attraction, it most likely caused a knee jerk reaction. The idea that you in somehow attracted abuse as if you welcomed torment and torture is completely ludicrous!

If you didn’t immediately slam the door on the information shared in “The Secret” or about the law of attraction and you began to question the possibility, what did you find out? Where did you go to search for your answers?

Did you simply keep asking the question of the possibility of whether you somehow did attract abuse, a narcissistic emotional abuser, a psychopath, a rapist? Though it was uncomfortable, angering, and ridiculous, did you keep searching for the possibility?

Did you search because you wanted to know, to find out, because if you had anything to do with the abuse that happened in your life, you wanted to find out to make sure this would never, ever be repeated? That is probably the only reason why a human being would ever even consider the idea so they could have some type of control in a world that sometimes feels like there are predators behind every corner.

Are you saying I attracted a narcissistic emotional abuser? Are you saying I attracted abuse?

What a sickening thought! How dare they? How dare you imply I asked for abuse?

These thoughts, these questions most likely ran rampant in your mind. Yet, out of the will and want to survive in what seems like a crazy world, you kept on searching. You kept on asking?

Did the information come to you that your brain is a transmitter and receiver of energy? Did the information come to you that from birth to around the age of four everything, every thing, goes into your subconscious unfiltered?

Thoughts were not your thoughts. They were the thoughts of those around you. The thoughts of those around you creating an environment that spoke to you with and without words.

If in any way your environment and those around you devalued you, these thoughts became part of your programming. Your brain, the transmitter and receiver of energy, was being programmed without your permission and without your knowing it.

Did this type of information come to you? Did this information come to you helping you understand why it seems like time and again, relationship after relationship, and not just in your most recent intimate relationship with the narcissistic emotional abuser, but in almost, if not all, your relationships in other areas of your life, you’re somehow victimized?

Are you saying I attracted abuse? The thought remains nauseating, yet in some unexplainable way, it is helpful because you are empowered knowing you have a choice.

You can slam the door on the concepts presented in “The Secret” and about the law of attraction. You also have the choice to continue asking for sense to be made out of your God forsaken abuse and test the answers that in some unexplainable way continue to come to you.

Source by Ruth E David

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